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YOU'RE TRYING TO PARENT YOUR CHILD GENTLY & REPECTFULLY

But you’re not always sure what to do when your child doesn’t listen.

Timeouts and idle threats aren’t really your thing.

 

But it doesn’t feel great if the only time your child listens is when you lose your cool 😠 

(and feel awful about it afterwards) 

or bribe them with more screen time or a 🍭 to do what you said.

You’re tired of power struggles at bedtime, and you wish it were easier to get your child dressed in the morning, or leave the playground without a fight.

 IT'S TIME FOR

Kind, calm, confident moms 

AND KIDS THAT LISTEN THE FIRST TIME. 

HI, I'M SARA

I’m a teacher turned parenting coach who loves helping parents raise happy, helpful kids with a Montessori-inspired “balanced” parenting approach.

My version of balanced parenting combines  the idea of gentle and respectful parenting with proven strategies from the Montessori philosophy.

So you can offer your child direction and guidance in a gentle and respectful way that doesn’t harm your relationship or scare your child into compliance.

With a Master's degree in Education and 30+ years of working with children, I've learned that the most important thing about raising cooperative kids isn't rewards or punishments. 

It's connection. Because you can be kind, calm, and respectful, and raise a child who is the same. 

AND ALSO


Being a kind, calm mom doesn't mean letting your child be in charge of EVERYTHING.

 

Your child is hard-wired to look to you to show them how the world works. You are their loving and trusted mentor and coach, and offering them leadership and guidance is an important part of your role. 

That's why I've created THE KID TALK TECHNIQUE.

Because I'm here for kind, calm parents who understand their kids still need to:

đŸȘ„ Brush their teeth 

đŸ¶ Not pull the dog’s tail

đŸ‘‹đŸŒ And hold your hand when you cross the street. 

Wouldn't it be nice to... 

 

LEAVE THE PLAYGROUND

Without your child ignoring your directions, endless negotiations, and at least one of you crying?

 

START THE DAY

With calm and peaceful time as family instead of power struggles over brushing their teeth, putting on shoes, and two more bites of breakfast?

 

HAVE FEWER FIGHTS WITH YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE

Because you approach your child's tricky moments in a gentle and supportive way that you both feel good about? 

An online program for the parents of children ages 2-5.

 
It's a proven process for talking to your child in a way that makes them more likely to cooperate in the first place AND shows you how to follow through without losing your cool when they don’t. 

Your Kind, Calm, Confident Mom Era Starts Here

STEP 1: Becoming a Kind, Calm, and Confident Mom

 

The mindset and inner work that helps you step into your role as a kind, calm, and confident leader in your home.

Anchor your guidance in a strong relationship and loving connection with your child.

A Montessori understanding of your child's development and approaching your child’s tricky moments with the underlying energy of offering support. You're not disciplining or reprimanding your child. You teach them the expectations in a loving, gentle, and mutually respectful way.

STEP 2: Develop Your Magic Mom Voice

 

Your Magic Mom Voice is the heart and soul of being a kind, calm, and confident mom. 

You are gentle, respectful, and working with your child’s development to help your child be more likely to cooperate with your directions. 

You’ll learn specific words and phrases that that make your child more likely to follow your directions and less likely to fling themselves on the floor in protest when they’re not in the mood.

STEP 3: Follow Through without Losing Your Cool

 

Learn how to follow through on your direction with calm, consistent, and gentle support.

It's how you get from POINT A (you’ve given your child a direction, but they’re not following your direction,) ➡ ➡ to POINT B (they’re following your direction) without raising your voice, begging, or bribing. 

The Kid Talk Technique is specifically designed for busy parents of young children.

 
The lessons are prerecorded audio lessons so you can learn on your own schedule. 

You can listen in the car, on a walk, or while your emptying the dishwasher. 

The lessons are short, focused, and designed to get you using what you're learning right away. 

You’ll focus on one topic each week so you can practice and apply what you’re learning without feeling overwhelmed. 

The course is paced to be very doable in 8 weeks, with less than an hour of lesson content each week. 

Each week you'll receive a "Momentum Email" with a brief introduction to that week's topic.

These weekly reminder emails help keep The Kid Talk Technique at the top of your inbox, and top of mind, helping you stay motivated and engaged in the program.

To help you feel confident that you will know how to apply these strategies to your own life, The Kid Talk Technique also includes

8 weeks of 1:1 support in the messaging app Telegram.

 

Pop your question in a Telegram message or short voice note, and we can troubleshoot challenges and help you apply what you’re learning with this “asynchronous” support. (Telegram is a messaging app like Slack or WhatsApp that you can access on your phone or computer.)

The Kid Talk Technique is not just a course. It’s a step-by-step process with my support along the way.

To help you feel even more supported in the program,

⬇ THERE ARE SOME BONUSES ⬇

BONUS 01

OFFICE HOURS ON ZOOM

Stop by at 1:00pm EST on the first and third Thursday of the month for “office hours” on zoom.

✹ Talk about what’s working well and what might still feel hard.

✹ Ask questions and we can troubleshoot challenges.

✹ Talk more specifically about you might apply the ideas in The Kid Talk Technique to your family and situation. 

BONUS 02

QUICK REFERENCE GUIDE

The Quick Reference Guide is a summary of the strategies and key phrases from the The Kid Talk Technique, so you can share what you’re learning with your spouse, partner, nanny, or Nana. 

Children thrive on consistency, and it’s easier for everyone when caregivers are on the same page.

This Quick Reference Guide helps you share the strategies you’re learning with your husband, wife, or mother-in-law so they can respond to your child in a consistent, supportive way even if they aren’t in the program. 

BONUS 03

✹ AN EXTRA MONTH OF SUPPORT✹

Four extra weeks of support (for a total of 3 months of support) in the program.

The Kid Talk Technique is paced to be very doable in 8 weeks.

But – especially as a parent – LIFE HAPPENS.

I want you to have plenty of time to absorb and apply what you're learning, without feeling like you have to rush. 

This bonus month of support gives you time to ask questions and troubleshoot any challenges as you use and apply what you’re learning in the program.

When you join The Kid Talk Technique 

You have “lifetime” access to the lessons.

That means as long as the program exists in the world, you can return to the material whenever you need a refresher, a reminder, or guidance for a new stage with your child. The 6 modules are thoughtfully organized to help you move through the material at a steady, manageable rhythm (ideally one per week) so you can apply what you’re learning in real time. 

 

You don’t have to “finish” within 8 weeks. 

 

At the same time, engaging with the content during that window allows you to fully benefit from the weekly email reminders, office hours, and telegram support as you're applying what you're learning in your own life. 

THE KID TALK TECHNIQUE includes –

  • Library of bite-sized, actionable video lessons
  • Example and practice “case study” exercises and journal prompts
  • Weekly Momentum emails 
  • 8 weeks of asynchronous support in Telegram 
  • Bonus #1 – Office hours on zoom
  • Bonus #2 – Quick Reference Guide
  • Bonus #3 – 4 extra weeks of support

If you're ready for more cooperation –

without raising your voice, begging, or bribing

 

✹COME ON IN ✹

The Kid Talk Technique

$397

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Still on the fence? Let's hop on a call.

I'm happy to answer your questions and help you decide if The Kid Talk Technique is a good fit for you. 

You are welcome to email me at sara@saraqmurray.com and we can set up a time. 

The Kid Talk Technique is my love letter to parents 

 

of young children everywhere and is filled ways to help your child's early years feel more fun and less overwhelming for everyone.

 

 I'd love to have you join us. 
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