Free video series for parents of toddlers and preschoolers

What if I told you it’s actually easier than you think to handle your child’s tantrums and tears? 

 

When you discover the Montessori-inspired magic behind managing meltdowns with confidence AND connection, you don’t have to try and talk your child out of their mad and sad feelings.

Would you like to know what to say no matter what your child throws your way –

 It’s as easy as 1, 2, 3…

 

Yes, please
STEP ONE: THE FREQUENCY OF SUPPORT

 

When you flip the switch from UGH NOT AGAIN →  “We’re in this together, I’m here to help,” the energy of your intention arrives before your words, and your child can feel the difference.

 

Your child’s body, heart, and soul can feel the difference between a grown-up who’s as overwhelmed as they are, and a parent who is in their corner and by their side when things feel out of control.

 

A supportive tone that signals, "You’re not in trouble. I’m here to help,” helps your child lean towards your support, instead of away from it, helping everyone feel better faster and move on to happier parts of your day.

STEP TWO: CO-REGULATION

 

Help your child see that even though it seems like the end of the world, they are safe, and you are there to help. 

 

You’re not going to give up or give in, but your softness and stability help your child’s body and brain to regulate and resettle when they feel overwhelmed.

STEP THREE: VALIDATION

 

Lots of times little kids feel like their grown-ups are gaslighting them. As well-meaning as you may be, when you say, “It’s ok, it’s ok” to your bawling child, they often feel madder because they are in fact NOT OK, thank you very much.

 

Validation flips the script and helps you show your child that you DO understand how awful they feel, lessening their need to holler and howl to convince you of their feelings.

A video series designed with you in mind

 

👉 This is a prerecorded video series so you can watch when it’s best for you.

👉 Each video is 10 minutes long, so you can watch them during nap time, after bedtime, or in the carline at camp pick up.

👉 Each lesson ends with a specific action step so that you can turn what you learn from being “nice to know” to actually making a difference for you and your family.

👉 You’ll get one video each day, emailed straight to your inbox. If you are feeling particularly inspired (or desperate!) you can keep going because you have access to all three videos inside the course portal

👉 The strategies you’ll learn are backed by science, mixed with Montessori goodness, and help your child develop the emotional regulation skills they need now – and through their life.

Sounds good to me!

Does "gentle parenting" even actually work in the middle of a meltdown?

You want your child to stop crying, but how on earth does that happen without raising your voice, begging, or bribing them to “behave?”

 

So many parents have told me that they know what they DON'T want to do, but they don't always know what TO do instead. 

 

You’re over time-outs and idle threats, but it doesn’t feel great if the only time your child listens is when you lose your cool (and feel awful about it afterwards) or bribe them with treats or more screen time to do what you ask.

 

My definition of gentle parenting boils down to the fact that you’re not going to be mean about it, AND you’re not going to let it go.

 

You are kind, calm, and connected AS you are teaching your child how to be a kind, cooperative, and respectful person in your family and in the world. And that includes helping them through their big feelings

A Look Ahead to Next Steps

 

At the end of the video series I'll introduce you to my new online program, 

THE KID TALK TECHNIQUE.

 

THE KID TALK TECHNIQUE is my proven formula for talking to your child so they follow your directions the first time, without raising your voice, bribing them to cooperate, or giving up in frustration because they “just won’t listen.”

 

If you’re ready for more cooperation, less overwhelm, and a proven plan that you and your spouse can agree on, THE KID TALK TECHNIQUE is for you.

 A little bit about me...

Hi, I'm Sara

I am living proof that you can raise a "well-behaved" child using a gentle and intentional parenting approach. 

After 30+ years of working with children, I've learned that the most important thing about raising cooperative kids isn't rewards or punishments. It's connection. Because you can be kind, calm, and respectful, and raise a child who is the same. 

You want a child who cooperates with your directions because they love and trust you, not because they're scared of you. 

Being a kind, calm, and connected parent doesn't mean letting your child rule the roost. Your child is hard-wired to look to you to show them how the world works. You are their loving and trusted mentor and coach, and offering them leadership and guidance is an important part of your role. 

That's why I've created Gentle Guidance for Big Feelings. Because I'm here for parents who want to support their child in tough moments, while also teaching them how to manage their emotions safely and appropriately.  Leading to more cooperation, fewer power struggles, and more time for giggles and goofing around.

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